According to our scriptures and all religions; when a person does wrong to us, what should we do to that person

"Not any of religion teaches you to take revenge with anyone"

"When someone does something wrong to you, you should not take revenge to them because everyone gets the fruit of karma, And you think you take revenge and nothing gonna happened to you no you are wrong you have to face the law of Karma."

According to Shastra Purana:

When a wrong is done to us by others we should not kill them or harm them physically. We should keep quiet and just keep saying that we do not accept the wrong. Others may try to harm us further. We should reply by saying, "I do not need anything from you, leave me alone." Guru Granth Sahib Ji further says:

When you are insulted or abused, you become angry; you feel you should punish those who abuse you, but those who harbor such feelings will never attain tranquility.

"When someone does harm, and you want to harm in return, the highest dharma is not to take revenge on that person. The highest dharma is to forgive." This is an interesting statement. So let’s take the example of someone who has done wrong to you. Such a person would have come into your life for a reason. You may have learned something good from him. He may have done something which you did not know was bad. Or maybe chances are that he did not know that he was doing something bad now.

Still, what should be your approach? How should you behave? It depends on your own level of understanding of dharma.

The definition of "Dharam" according to the SGGS Ji is "voluntary restraint from crookedness".

When someone does something wrong to us, by our Shastra it is not recommended to take any action against them physically.

It is said that even if someone kills us, instead of taking revenge by killing him/herself, we must forgive them.

Guru Sahib says in the SGGS Ji "जो जोत पाईया चलन कूरह पाराधार", This means that he will take actions out of fear of being punished by Waheguru Ji. This fear of being punished by Waheguru Ji is called Dharam.

Nevertheless, Guru Granth Sahib Ji gives us an answer on how we should deal with such abuse from anyone. Guru Granth Sahib Ji further says:

When you are insulted or abused, you become angry; you feel you should punish those who abuse you, but those who harbor such feelings will never attain tranquility. If you insult or abuse a person in return, the insult returns to you. If you keep quiet, God knows what is in your mind, and He will reward you for your restraint. Have patience and endure insult; remember that Time heals all wounds.

When a person does wrong to us, we should not kill him. We should not harm him physically. Nor should we insult or abuse him. It is neither wise nor prudent to do so because such vengeance will not bring us any spiritual satisfaction. On the contrary, it will only multiply our mental anguish.

Guru Granth Sahib Ji further says, anger and rage are like poison; they destroy the honor of mankind; they subdue intelligence; they darken one’s wisdom; they burn up all discrimination. Through anger, one loses his self-control. He can no longer discriminate between right and wrong.

We are not supposed to harm any living being, not bully anyone, not exploit any people, in short, we are not supposed to harm anyone at all. But what should we do when someone hurts us?

When it comes to Shastra Puran (scriptures) in Hinduism, there is no command like hurting or killing anyone. Not even in the case of Dharma (laws of human ethics) war. Well, not in any religion at all.

As this world is full of ignorance, people are following the wrong ways to solve their problems. Many of them are doing wrong to others in the name of revenge, hatred, violence, and many more. Every religion has taught us that one should remain calm when he/she is in problems, but due to lack of knowledge, people are damaging themselves physically or mentally.

What should we do to a person when he does wrong to us, according to our Shastra Purana - Not even any religion allowed us to harm anyone, in order to get revenge or in order to teach him a lesson. 

As per Rigveda

Our first scripture named Rig Veda described "A person who commits wrong or violence on anyone, does not get any reward by his own deeds."

This has been the basic principle of any religion, including Hinduism.

The word used in this scripture is "Kshanti" - The word "Kshanti" means "tolerance". So, if we are tolerant of anyone who does wrong to us, this is the best solution. The negative impact of harming a person does not stop here, but it converts us to be the same as the person whom we want to punish. That's why it becomes very difficult for us to punish a person who has committed a crime or an offense or killing or harm to anybody. So, Karma is the best punishment for anybody. Our religions support us in doing Karma Yoga. It means accepting all events in our life as they are happening according to Karmas, without creating any resistance against them.

Aim of every Religion

One of the main aims of all religions is to make people happy and keep them far away from any kind of negativity and violence.

One of the main aims of our Purana Shastra is to make people happy. We are told that everything in this world is for our happiness, so why should we wish bad luck to anyone. If someone does any wrong to us, according to our Shastra Purana, we should not take revenge on them by doing any wrong to them. If someone does any wrong to us, then the only thing that we should think our minds is that all these are being done by destiny, Gurudev has given us the present life just for improving our fate, so if someone gives us any distress, then Gurudev has chosen them to give us any distress. Therefore, when someone does any wrong to us, we should take it as a blessing in disguise because Gurudev wants to make us strong.

Revenge is not right, Karma will take care of it. No religion told us to do that.

Should we beat the thief, should we behead the killer who has killed innocent people?

Should we be so strict with someone who did wrong to us? Should we beat him till he can't move his bones?

That is called murder, no religion tells us to take revenge.

We can try to forgive him. We should guide him back. We should go behind him and tell him not to do that again. We should drop all our ego and be humble. And then talk to that person. Our love will give him a lesson.

We can't see one side of the coin, if you are happy with the end result why are you worried about what others are doing? Why are you worried about what others are doing? What is wrong in taking good out of bad?

Jesus told us - Do unto others what you want them to do unto you.

As we know from the Shastra Purana, a scripture of Hinduism, that a person who does wrong to you you do the same wrong to the person back. Sages have written a lot of things on this subject in Purana. In Gita, Lord Krishna tries to explain to us that revenge or hurt someone when they hurt you is not the solution to your problem.

In Dhyana spirituality, we try to explain every type of person from the point of view of Shastra Purana, Vedas, and Bhagwat Geeta in order to make a proper human being in this world.

Indians have a lot of knowledge in spirituality they can help all people around in a proper way.

I always felt that there is a solution coming from a person who does wrong to us which is not a solution of your problem, i.e., revenge or hurt him when he hurt you. Reading Bhagwat Geeta of lord Krishna, Where he explained to us the solution of every problem which we faced in our daily life or once in a life.